我回答：“我刚刚认识你，整你干什么！再说，我哪里有那样的本事，能让你说不出话来！”
I replied: "I just met you, why am I trying to pinch you! Besides, I don't have the ability to make you speechless!"
刘健君叨咕：“我也感觉奇怪，刚刚认识，你怎么老是整我呢！你是没能力让我说不出话来。这一条，我认为你说得对。你懂这个，在给你舅舅讲的时候，你就按顺序，系统地说。他经历过的，听了就明白了。没经历过的，他知道了，以后遇见不害怕。”
Eve Liu muttered: "I feel strange too. We just met, why do you keep pinching me! Indeed! You don't have the ability to make me speechless. I think you are right about this clause. You understand this when you talk to your uncle you explain it in systematically sequence. He will understand what he has experienced, to those he has not experienced, he will not be afraid when he encounters it in the future. "
可我瞪着眼睛，不知道这条该说什么，该如何给我舅舅讲。
But I stared, not knowing what to say or how to tell my uncle.
 
她说：“现在我帮你把咱俩讨论过的这几条内容整理一下。”讲完后，让我给她讲。
刘健君听了我讲超渡这几句话后，非常生气，说：“你整我！怎么你讲的比我讲的好呢？还一套一套的，你知道还问我干什么！”
She said: "Now I'm going to help you organize these items we've discussed." After speaking, she asked me to lecture her.
When Eve Liu heard me speak these clauses of the Transcendental Ferry, she was very angry and said: "You're pinching me! How is it that you speak better than I do? It's also many sets of words, why do you ask me if you know!"
我回答：“我不知道！我以前在一本杂志上看过大般若经的序言，我不懂，觉着如果背下来，将来能懂，我就有了些优点。即便弄不懂，这几句文采飞扬，我也可以用它乍现异相、哗众取宠，说一些谁也听不懂的话来标新立异。”
I replied: "I don't know it before! I read the preface of the Maha Paramita Sutra (i.e. Greater Ark Sutra) in a magazine. I didn't understand it and thought that if I memorized it and could understand it in the future, I would have some merit. Even if I can't figure it out, these lines are so literate that I can use them manifest strange, to clamor for attention, to say something that no one can understand to make a new point."
她听了后，对我大加赞赏：“你这想法真好！”可一转身，她被气得哭了。我问她又怎么了？她说：“我从小就认为我懂这个，是我的长处之一，可我爸爸总说我不懂。现在，连你都明白了，我还是不懂！我是怎么回事！？”
When she heard this, she praised me: "That's a great idea!" But when she turned around, she was so exasperated that she cried. I asked her what was wrong again. She said: "I grew up thinking I understood this, that it was one of my strengths, but my dad always said I didn't understand. Now, even you understand it, and I still don't! What's wrong with me!?"
我听了后，被气得发晕：怎么我懂了这点儿事，就把你侮辱哭了！你从骨头里往外瞧不起我！为什么还要和我谈恋爱！？不谈了！我转身就走。走出去一段距离后，我又想：就这样离开了，也太没礼貌了！就又走回来了。
When I heard this, I was furious: how is it that I insulted you to tears by understanding this little affair! You despise me from your bones! Why do you still want to fall in love with me! I don't want to talk about it! I turned around and walked away. After walking out for some distance, I thought it's too rude to leave like this! So, I walked back.
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刘健君问我：“你以前真不明白这几句话？”
我回答：“我上哪里去知道，我还没结婚呢！”
Eve Liu asked me: "You really didn't understand these words before?"
I replied: "Where would I know, I'm not married!"
她叨咕：“这事和结没结婚有什么关系！我也没结婚呢！” 她一转身，笑了，问：“为什么没结婚就不能知道这几句话？”
我腼腆地说：“这是农村人的说法。”
She muttered: "What does this have to do with being married or not! I'm not married either!" She turned around, laughed, and asked: "Why can't you know these words if you're not married?"
I said coyly, "It's a rural saying."
她立刻说：“我上高中的时候，就听说过，许多民间老说法的背后有我们不知道的原因。大学的时候，就有这个实习项目，调查民间的说法，我就参加了。我们相信这个，你想一想，为什么你刚才那么说？我想听。”
She immediately said: "When I was in high school, I heard that there are reasons behind many of the old folk sayings that we don't know. When I was in college, there was this internship program to investigate folk sayings, and I took it. We believe in this, so think about it, why did you just say that? I want to hear it."
我说：“小时候，我们村子里有人作法事。那个被作法的人死前想见见我父母。法师就派助理来找我父母，对我妈说：我先给你讲讲给人送终要说的几句话；这几句话不让小孩儿听，因为慧能害痴。我妈说：不痴，还不好？！ 那个法师助理说：老辈子们说，太痴了不好，但没痴也不好。不痴情对谈恋爱和婚后生活都有不好的影响。”
I said: "When I was a kid, someone in our village performed a ‘Juristic Affair’. The man who had been amended wanted to meet my parents before he died. The Juristic Teacher then sent his assistant to my parents and said to my mom: ‘I'll first tell you the few sentences of Transcendental Ferry. These words are not to be listened to by children because gnosis harms ignorance. My mom said, ‘isn’t that good to not be ignorant?’ That juristic assistant said, ‘The old lifers say that it's neither good to be too non-ignorant nor good to be very ignorant. Non-ignorant has a bad effect on falling in love and on married life."
刘健君听了之后不笑了，想了一会儿后说：“是有这说法。我刚去医院实习的时候，听说他们也给病人讲这个，我就好奇，想知道他们讲的和我爸爸讲的一样不，就问。老大夫说：你们年轻人，可不能学这个！你再想一想，你还听见什么了？”
Eve Liu stopped laughing after hearing this and said after thinking for a while: "There is this saying. When I first went to the hospital for my internship, I heard that they also told this to the patients, I was curious to know if what they told was the same as what my father told, so I asked. The old doctor said, ‘You young people, should not learn this! Think again, what else did you hear?’"
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我说：“他们去了，我就跟去了。到那家不远处，有护法在外面看守着，不让进。有几个人跟那个年轻的护法唠嗑。护法说，师傅们都不教我们，也不给我们看那套书。师傅们说，‘什么天书、地书的，那就是一套书。我们没人在意谁泄露秘密。等到你们四十岁的时候，肯定给你们每人一套。现在不教你们是为你们好。你们现在什么也不知道，那找对象成功了就是瞎猫碰上死耗子了。实际上找对象，瞎猫碰死耗子这个办法最好。你们这些瞎猫出去一溜达，准能撞上死耗子。’”
I said: "They went, and I followed. When I got not far from that house, there were ‘Juristic Defenders’ (i.e. guardians) outside watching and not letting in. A few people were chattering with the young Juristic Defender (i.e. Juristic Teacher’s assistants or disciples). The young man said, ‘The masters don't teach us, and they don't show us the book. The masters said, ‘What is the Sky Book, the Book of Death and Life? It is just a set of books, and no one cares who reveals the secrets; when you are forty years old, we will surely give each of you a set of the books. It is for your own good that we do not teach you now. If you don't know anything now, then you succeed in finding a spouse, it would be like a blind cat bumping into a dead rat. In fact, this is the best way to find a spouse. When you blind cats go out, you're bound to run into a dead rat.”
 “如果教你们，还让你们看书，你们就把慧眼（参见7.5.2节）、法眼（参见7.5.1节）都睁开了。你们有了他心通（一种古代的心理分析法；慧眼包括他心通），专看人家的阴暗面。人有黑暗的经历不见得就是坏人，你们却认为人家怪。你们看这个邪，那个歪，时间长了，你们自己就长歪了，变成了怪人。慧伤痴，不痴情，你们谈恋爱不专心，今天跟这个谈，明天跟那个谈，招三慕四的，到头来，哪个也不成，把自己耽误了。”
"If we teach you and let you read the books, your Gnostic Eye (see section 7.5.2) and Juristic Eye (see section 7.5.1) will open. When you have “Reading Others Mind Through” (an ancient method of psychoanalysis; the Gnostic Eye includes “Reading Others Mind Through”), and you specialize in looking at people's dark sides. People who have dark experiences are not necessarily bad people, but you think that they are strange. You see this as evil, that as crooked, and over time, you yourselves grow crooked and become weird. Gnosis hurts ignorance. No ignorance, you are not focused on love, today with this talk, tomorrow with that talk, recruiting three, four, in the end, which will not be able to, to delay your own.”
 “等你们把法眼睁开了，你们就该分析自己性格和对象的匹配了，用条条去套，用框框去选。那找对象，三、二年才能遇到一个符合条件的；再用你们那法眼一看，这个有魔障、那个有业障，都是妖魔鬼怪的，想找个人都难，那你们的对象还咋找！”
刘健君说：“我听这说法挺有道理的！”
I continued: "When your juristic eye open, you would analyze the match between your personality and the spouse and use the bars to set and the boxes to choose. Then looking for a spouse, three or two years to meet a qualified. Then with your juristic eyes, this has a demonic hindrance, that has karmic hindrance, are all demons and monsters, want to find a human is difficult, that your spouse how to find!"
Eve Liu said: "I hear this argument is quite reasonable!"
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坛主:Adam_Luyan于2024_04_24 15:25:19编辑