2014年夏，由于作土建工作让我触景生情，对我的刺激太大，我决定放弃建筑职业，就到一家华人饭店做送餐的工作了。父母兄妹看了我的回忆录后，不相信，人怎么能回忆起那么小时候的事！他们认为我混淆了幻想经历和真实的经历。
In the summer of 2014, because the civil engineering work made me feel emotional, it was too stimulating for me, so I decided to give up the construction career and work as a waiter in a Chinese restaurant. After reading my memoirs, my parents and siblings didn't believe it. How could a person recall things from such a young age! They thought I confused my fantasy experiences with real experiences.
我意识到了，我回忆出了三岁前的事，证明了宿命通有可能存在；但导致宿命通的宿命智是什么？可靠吗？我百思不得其解。
I realized that I could recall things that happened before I was three years old, proving that “Fate Through” is possible. But what is the fate-intelligence that leads to fate-through? Is it reliable? I was puzzled.
 
10.7-2 宿命智 Fate Intelligence
2016年春，我在复读自己的回忆录时发现，1991年崔凤龙姨父给我留遗嘱时（参见4.10节https://web.6parkbbs.com/index.php?app=forum&act=view&tid=4336066），他是表演给我看的，还说我过目不忘。我意识到了刘团长知道我是个图像思维型的人，查找了现代心理学图像思维型人的特质。
In the spring of 2016, I was re-reading my memoirs and realized that when Aunt Cui Fenglong left me a will in 1991 (see section 4.10), he was acting it out for me and said that I could “not forget passing through my eyes”. I realized that Troupe Leader Liu knew that I am an image-thinker, looking up the modern psychological image-thinker trait.
现代的心理学讲，新生儿在语言能力形成之前，都是图像思维模式，比如理解妈妈的笑脸，动作和情绪等。渐渐地，伴随着语言的行成，思维模式、记忆模式、记忆提取模式都发生了改变。一般来说，人三岁后都是用语言进行基本思维的，但还是可以分成三种类型：（1）图像思维型，人群中占30%；（2）文字思维型，人群中占25%；（3）前两种的混合型，人群中占45%。动感（Kinesthetic）思维型人和其它的思维方式在人群中的占比少于1%。
According to modern psychology, before newborns develop language skills, they use image thinking, such as understanding their mother's smile, movements, and emotions. Gradually, as language is formed, thinking patterns, memory patterns, and memory retrieval patterns all change. People use language for basic thinking after the age of three, but they can still be divided into three types: (1) image thinking type, accounting for 30% of the population; (2) text thinking type, accounting for 25% of the population; (3) a mixture of the first two types, accounting for 45% of the population. Kinesthetic thinking type and other thinking styles account for less than 1% of the population.
图像思维型人的思维更依赖于视觉。由于图像记忆节省记忆体，可以说这种人有用不完的记忆体，可以记忆从出生到70岁所经历的全部事。记忆的提取模式简单，提取的范围也宽。迁徙动物的领头者和洄游的鱼都是图像思维模式。
People with image thinking are more dependent on vision. Since image memory saves memory, it can be said that such people have endless memory and can remember everything they have experienced from birth to 70 years old. The memory retrieval mode is simple, and the range of retrieval is wide. The leader of migrating animals and migratory fish are both images thinking models.
文字思维型的人更依赖于听觉。由于这种记忆的存储方式和记忆的提取方式复杂，所以相对于图像思维型人来说，长期记忆的有效时间短，记忆被提取的范围也小。
People with text-based thinking are more dependent on hearing. Because the storage and retrieval methods of this type of memory are complex, the effective time of long-term memory is shorter, and the range of memory retrieval is smaller than that of people with image-based thinking.
我得出了结论，图像思维模式是宿命智的潜能。但这种宿命智的潜能有多大程度，在真实生活中是否可以信赖？我的疑问是，刘团长这实验成功的概率是多少？他是否在用他自己和我的生命开玩笑！？
I concluded that the image thinking mode is the potential of Fate Intelligence. But how big is the potential of this Fate Intelligence, and can it be trusted in real life? My question is, what is the probability of success of Troupe Leader Liu's experiment? Is he kidding himself and my life!?
10.7-3 宿命是性格使然 Fate is Formed from Personality
我回忆起了我9岁时，我奶奶曾经对我做过的事。一次奶奶看着我，突然嚎叫：“这孩子（在说我）这么老实，将来可怎么活！” 她和我大伯因此吵起来了。大伯走后，奶奶呸的一声，吓得我一跳，她叨咕：“这点儿事都看不明白，还自认为聪明呢！” 对我说：“你的命运，奶奶看得清清楚楚！是这么回事，你给我记住了！”
I recalled what my grandmother did to me when I was 9 years old. One time, my grandmother looked at me and suddenly howled: "This child (talking about me) is so honest, how will he live in the future!" She and my uncle quarreled about this. After my uncle left, my grandmother made a sound of "Pooh", which scared me. She muttered: "You can't understand such a small thing, but you still think you are smart!" She said to me: "Your fate is clearly seen by your grandmother! This is what happened, you remember it!"
奶奶说：“你胆子小，还小心眼儿，挨欺负了，不敢和人家打架。可你还记着，自己想起来就生气。时间长了，你就病了。你病了，就死了也没什么！可你这种人，临死前还能明白过来：我是受谁谁的欺负，所以我病了，我是被欺负死的！你想报仇，可你要死了，活不成了，怎么报仇！像你这种人，就恨自己，就折磨自己。你能用刀割自己的肉，戳瞎自己的眼睛！那是最可怕的死法，你的命运就是这样！这种命自古就有，老辈的人们都看得好好的。这点道理你大爷都看不明白！”
Grandma said: "You are timid and narrow-minded. You dare not fight with others when you are bullied. But you still remember it and get angry when you think about it. After a long time, you will get sick. If you are sick, it doesn't matter if you die! But people like you can understand before they die: I was bullied by someone, so I got sick, I was bullied to death! You want revenge, but you are going to die, you can't live anymore, how can you take revenge! People like you hate yourself and torture yourself. You can cut your own flesh with a knife and poke out your own eyes! That is the most terrible way to die, and this is your fate! This kind of fate has existed since ancient times, and the older generation see it clearly. Your uncle can't understand this little theory!"
奶奶说：“你的命有个解法，奶奶告诉你，‘只要有一口气在，你别折磨自己，你去找仇人报仇’。你病了，你就是爬，也要爬到仇人家，和他打架；要死，死在仇人家里。你命运的解法就是坚持报仇；打，你就能活；放弃了报仇，你就死了。”
Grandma said, "There is a solution to your fate. Grandma tells you, 'As long as you have a breath left, don't torture yourself, go find your enemy and take revenge.' If you are sick, you must crawl to your enemy's house and fight him; if you want to die, die in your enemy's house. The solution to your fate is to insist on revenge; if you fight, you will live, if you give up revenge, you will die."
奶奶说：“老辈子人说，这人那，就没谁想整死谁。你坚持找仇人报仇；人家就明白了，就让你出气了。你也得明白，最终还是要和解。矛盾被公平地解决了，你的病就好了。这就是你命运的解法。如果你知道了，别让人家欺负着，你就不生病了，那不更好么！”
Grandma said, "The old people said that no one wants to kill anyone. You insist on seeking revenge on your enemies; they will understand and let you vent your anger. You also must understand that you still must reconcile in the end. The conflict is resolved fairly, and your illness will be cured. This is the solution to your fate. If you know this, don't let others bully you, and you won't get sick. Isn't that better!"
2015年，我想起了奶奶说的这话，她说对了，我的病就是让刘健君父女俩给欺负了，形成的。那时，奶奶的话鼓励着我，坚持找刘健君讨回公道。那我奶奶是怎么看出我的命运的呢？
In 2015, I remembered what my grandmother said. She was right. My illness was caused by the bullying of Troupe Leader Liu and his daughter. At that time, my grandmother's words encouraged me to insist on seeking justice from Eve Liu. So how did my grandmother see my fate?
奶奶说：“你的命运就是这样，都是我的错！说起来，你爸去和你妈相亲，还是我带他去的呢。到你姥姥家的那个大岗子，一进门，我就看出来了：一家子的红脸关公。回来的路上，我对你爸说：凤玲（我妈）这孩子模样儿不丑，能说会笑，还是个老实人。你爸爸就信我了。你说当时，我怎么就没想想：父母都是老实人，生的孩子可怎么活！”
Grandma said, "Your fate is like this. It's all my fault! To be honest, I was the one who took your dad to the blind date with your mom. When we got to your grandma's house, I saw it as soon as I walked in: a family of red-faced Guan Gongs. On the way back, I said to your dad: Fengling (my mom) is not ugly, she can talk and laugh and is an honest person. Your dad believed me. You know, at that time, why didn't I think ‘both parents are honest people, how can their child live!’"
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坛主:Adam_Luyan于2024_10_21 9:55:02编辑